Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Mamas are heroes.
As I sit here writing to you, I am utterly exhausted. My forehead is pressed and indented by the cabinet that it rests on, as my fingers numbingly type these words.
The morning started with, "Mommy, I wet the bed," which ultimately meant I would have to add one more load of laundry on the day's to-do list. I grunted and headed for the coffee pot with crumb filled eyes.
The next half hour was filled with the regular routine: waffles in the toaster, peanut butter on the toast, rice cereal mixed with yogurt, two cups of chocolate milk and a bottle; paired with tongue-burning coffee -- gulped, not sipped. Lunches were made, kids were dressed, toys were picked up and dumped out again. The usual.
Next thing I know, we missed the bus.
So, I bundled up my three children, tossed on a hat and some Uggs and trudged out to the minivan.
Once everyone was buckled and ready to go, I turned the keys. Nothing.
It didn't start.
So I brought everyone back inside, added another layer of warmth, pulled out the double stroller, and we ran --not walked-- to school.
Did I mention I'm exhausted?
That's the thing about being a Mama.
It doesn't matter.
Whether we have slept, whether we are sick, whether our bones are broken or our bodies are aching-- it does not matter. The show must go on. Our children need us. They need us for the everyday not so big stuff, the life changing moments, and everything in between.
And we put them first.
It's what we do.
We wipe the crumbs from our eyes, we bandage our wounds, we grab a crutch, or a cup of coffee, and we trudge forward. We mend what needs mending, we do what needs doing, and we plod through the mud and mess that swamps our paths. And here is the wildest part- we smile through it:
because we understand what it means to love someone more than we love ourselves.
We are secondary.
We are needed.
We swoop in with magic kisses and encouraging words.
We save the day,
because Mama's are heroes.
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What a beautiful post. I loved and relate to every single word! We really are heroes!
ReplyDeletexoxo Melissa
www.allsortsofricci.blogspot.com
Amen! Seriously, so right on.
ReplyDeleteGosh, I want to be that mama so badly. I'm looking at having to go back to work, and mamas who work outside their homes are TOTALLY heroes, it's just not what I wanted. I want to be there for those moments - even the mundane routine ones. :)
ReplyDeletePerfectly said. The poetic honesty of this post gave me an extra boost in my step to finish the day...cape and all.
ReplyDeleteOh, wow! so very well said! So true so true!!! Love it! thanks so much!
ReplyDeleteMy son isn't born yet, but I think I am beginning to understand exactly what you mean. I think something clicks in your brain after getting pregnant that gives you the ability to just get it all done. Not that I get it all done, but suddenly getting out of bed to go to work after a night of almost NO sleep doesn't seem impossible like it did a few years ago.
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